Monday, October 29, 2012

Family Updates:

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So Léon and I are still friends, even though I have to be the big bad wolf and force him to do everything. And that’s his fault, not mine. Time to eat, clean your room, take a shower (notice I didn’t say bath), get into bed, go to the bathroom (I have to make him every night or there are consequences the next morning). All Léon wants to do is draw and color—like I mentioned, we are matched well.
Thursday, at the table, Léon kept insisting on kissing me and professing that “we were married” and that I “was his lover” and that I was his “spouse”. Liza only sat back and said “oh my” with a grin in her eyes and watched us in an intent way that made me uncomfortable. Luckily, I only gave Léon access to my cheek. I’m pretty sure he was just trying to get out of eating his dinner, a time when he always becomes especially amorous.
As for the girls, I’m definitely forming a friendship with Jeanne, the ten-year-old. We have small conversations that go beyond me telling her what to do in French. She is sweet, but very spacey. I always startle her when she can’t seem to find me after school, or choir practice or whatever.  Jeanne loves books, especially comics. She is always reading.  On Wednesday this week she invited me to come with her to Catechisme, a kind of Sunday school she has. It turned out to be a small program and mass session. Near the end, she asked me if I partook of the communion*. I told her that I was not Catholic. “Protestant?” She asked. “No, Mormon.” Which she of course had never heard of.  Walking back home afterwards, I could tell that she was embarrassed that she had invited me to her Catholic activity, me not being Catholic. I explained that it wasn’t a big deal and that I enjoyed going. I invited here to come to my church sometime.
One thing I like about Jeanne is that she is helping me learn French, unlike Léon who seems perfectly at-ease with my poor use of grammar. Jeanne is great because she has begun to correct me when I say something in the wrong way. All of the children are difficult to understand because they speak very rapidly and somewhat quietly. Well, except Léon.
Berenice, I have yet to form a special bond. When I have a chance to tuck her in at night, I do get a kiss on the cheek, but that is about the extent of what we have.  I am looking to find my way in with her. This girl is quite a little stallion. She physically provokes her siblings to fight and she has a sneaky way about her. Her favorite activities include taking care of the guinea pig, Misa, and making a Christmas Wishlist derived from a children’s toy catalogue (Léon loves this too).  She is hard to discipline, as nothing quite seems to work. Luckily, the parents have helped with that so far. As a fellow rebellious middle-child, however, I feel a connection to her. I am hoping once I can better communicate, then I can achieve the relationship I hope for.
In sum, I have mentally dubbed Léon “the monkey,” Jeanne “the angel,” and Bérenice, well… I’m still deciding. I think something along the lines of fox, weasel or badger.















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